Questions for a potential reception site:

  • What is the rental fee? What exactly does it include?
  • What is the maximum attendance the room or area can handle - for a seated dinner, buffet, or hors d'oeuvre reception?
  • Is the reception site to be shared with another wedding group? How are the facilities divided? How is privacy ensured?
  • How many hours does the rental fee reserve the space? Are there charges for overtime? W
  • When will the site be available for decorating etc? Any discounts for certain days of the week?
  • Do you have a piano, other musical instruments on the premises? Is there any charge for use?
  • Are there rules on decorations, flowers, photography?
  • Do you have an in-house caterer or preferred list of caterers?
  • What are your liquor requirements?
  • Do you have liability insurance?
  • Do you have adequate kitchen facilities? Is there an extra charge?
  • Can the site be used for the ceremony?
  • Is there a dance floor?
  • Are there any additional charges for required services (security guards, parking attendants, doormen, etc.)?
  • What are the deposit and refund requirements?
  • Is there adequate parking for my guests?
  • Are there changing rooms available?
  • Do you have a sound system?
  • Is there a comfortable area for guests to await our arrival from the ceremony site? Can hors d'oeuvres and drinks be served there?
  • Where is the best place to set up the receiving line?
  • What is the name of the banquet manager? Will he or she be on hand that day? If not, who will be in charge?
  • Security deposit required? How much is it? Refund?
  • Do you provide tables? What kind - round, oblong, and how many to a table? Chairs?
  • Do you have a floor plan available for sketching the reception layout? Where will the cake table, gift table, bride's table be located?
  • Are table covers/skirts available, included? Colors available?

 

 

Get everything in writing; contracts should state the date, time available and any extra charges. Do not expect a refund of your deposit should you cancel.

 


Tips for Giving the Perfect Toast: Generally, the best man acts as the toastmaster, and prepares a list of the order in which each person will make a toast. There is an established protocol which the couple may or may not choose to follow.